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Post by razberrykisses on Aug 23, 2006 8:20:53 GMT -5
sorry i havent been around. ive been working 40 or more hours a week. then i went to virginia beach for a week. my life is a bit crazy. married life is good. everything is good. how about everyone else?
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Post by LucyRaneri on Aug 23, 2006 9:28:26 GMT -5
40 hours..?! isn't that like a totaly insane amount?! s'cool everything is good with you =] that's ace. i'm on school holiday for one more week...getting all my exam results tomorrow. then...if i've passed it's off to college. xx
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Post by banditmillie on Aug 23, 2006 14:29:42 GMT -5
I'm back at school, which I'm hating every second of it. I miss my summer holidays coz I spent most the time in town with my friends and boyfriend, school sucks big time! ugh yea sorry lol x
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Post by Sloopy on Aug 24, 2006 6:29:03 GMT -5
I thought 40 is the norm? I always worked at least 40 hours in any job ...
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Post by LucyRaneri on Aug 24, 2006 13:23:25 GMT -5
haa...probably...to be fair i've never had a full on proper job....so that's why i was shocked =] it just sounds a lot. xx
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Post by razberrykisses on Aug 26, 2006 11:02:39 GMT -5
not when i asked for part time which is like 20-25 hours a week. it sucks
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Post by strangeimp on Aug 28, 2006 15:17:51 GMT -5
You asked for part time and got full time? That's so not cool.
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Post by razberrykisses on Aug 28, 2006 15:50:05 GMT -5
yeah it really fuckin sucks. because i have to try and keep my house clean and my husband does nothing because he is back at college. i know tons of people do it, but its like this. my husband is a pig. never picks up and leaves towers of soda cans everywhere. so i am just having a hard time trying to balance a full time job, and trying to shop for the house and keep the house clean. man i wish i could just be what i wanted...a house wife.
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Post by strangeimp on Aug 29, 2006 13:30:11 GMT -5
Aw!! I'm sorry that is just really cute that you want ot be a house wife. I don't know many people like that anymore. It sucks that you can't just be a house wife. Maybe once your husband is out of college...?
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Post by razberrykisses on Sept 6, 2006 1:41:32 GMT -5
Yeah, once he is out of college i can stay home. i just want to settle down somewhere and have babies as lame as that sounds. but i am going to college. im gunna go for nursing. that always helps when raising babies
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Post by strangeimp on Sept 6, 2006 14:45:21 GMT -5
Ah, my mom's a nurse. It is actually a great background to have in the baby raising professional. Hehe. My mom has NEVER been wrong when a friend of mine askes what could be wrong with them. And I think that it is really neat that you want to be a housewife and mom and stuff. You don't see that in many people anymore.
I personally, don't even want to get married. Lol. And my three closest female friends want careers and a husband but aren't so sure about the babies at all. So, I think it is really nice that you want to have that kind of life. As odd as that may sound. I mean it in a totally non-creepy way.
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Post by razberrykisses on Sept 7, 2006 1:15:02 GMT -5
more and more women choose not to have children these days. it is more of personal choice now, where as it used to be an obligation. i know a few of my friends say they want to have children, but they dont want to ruin their bodies, so they are going to have surrogate mothers carry their children. i think thats a little weird but yeah... i think that after my kids reach a certian age, that i want to work in a maternity ward. i dont want to be one of those creepy moms who is always over her teen shoulder you know?
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Post by strangeimp on Sept 10, 2006 12:31:16 GMT -5
I agree that generally surrogates is weird. There are some people who like CAN'T carry their children and then it is sort of understandable, but doing it because you don't want to "ruin your bady" is a little bit weird.
And that's cool that you don't want to be a creepy mom. Sounds like you've got a fairly good idea in your head.
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Post by banditmillie on Sept 11, 2006 10:04:33 GMT -5
Thats so cool, having all your future planned out. I think the surrogate things a little weird to, I think that having that "body ruining" thing is one of the sacrificies, but hey everyone has an opinion I know I don't want kids anytime soon, I mean i'm only 16 but in the future I know I'd only want the one And it's very cool you don't wanna be a creepy mum, they are kinda annoying x
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Post by Sloopy on Sept 11, 2006 10:46:30 GMT -5
here in america friend of mine nannied for a family who had tripple girls ... TRIPPLE and shortly after she had another child .... their mom is one of the prettiest women i know! its amazing!
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